The Benji 'n' Reggie Dynamic

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After introducing Benji and Reggie's inseparable relationship in the first pages of the novel, we're quickly thrown a curveball as the beginning of Benji's coming-of-age process is signified by the start of high school, and most importantly, separation from Reggie. Throughout their childhood, Benji and Reggie have been recognized as a "matched set"; hence, their collective nickname: Benji 'n' Reggie. However, after they drift apart from each other and become "former twins", Benji starts asking everyone to call him Ben instead of Benji in an attempt to grow up and sever any association with Reggie and their nickname. That being said, after their separation, Reggie seems to adopt the independent and adult-like lifestyle much better than Benji. For example, in the beggining of summer, Benji loiters around at home every day while Reggie is out working at Burger King. In addition, when their friend group is splitting up into teams for the BB gun fight, Reggie announces that he and Bobby are a "mini-team" since they practiced with each other, leaving Benji dumbfounded as he thought him and Reggie would be a mini-team like they always have been. Here, Benji is clearly stuck on the past while Reggie seems to have flawlessly adapted to being separate from Benji.

Given that Benji is the big brother and Reggie is the younger brother, Benji has a sense of obligation to act more mature than Reggie. Thus, with Reggie already being more independent than Benji, Benji feels uneasy as he's the one that's supposed to be more adult-like. At first, Benji merely follows in Reggie's footsteps with the determination that he won't let Reggie get ahead of him. For example, the reason Benji gets a job is so that he doesn't have to beg Reggie for money, essentially admitting that Reggie is a more responsible 'adult'. Benji continues this mindset of 'Anything Reggie can do, I can do too' by starting to play with BB guns--something he viewed as stupid and childish beforehand--all because he was told that Reggie was playing with them too. 

Additionally, Benji attempts to demonstrate his authority as the older sibling by protecting Reggie and forbidding him from doing stupid things like the BB gun fight (despite deciding to participate himself). However, since Benji and Reggie have spent so much of there lives as equal twins, introducing this new dynamic proved to be highly ineffective as Reggie effortlessly defies Benji's authority, remarking on how if Benji snitches on him, he can easily just snitch on Benji as well. Upon realizing that he has no power over Reggie and that Reggie no longer needs to rely on him, Benji learns that he doesn't need to rely on Reggie anymore either. Instead of trying to mimic Reggie and follow in his footsteps, Benji recognizes that only after he branches off from Reggie and starts being himself, will he truly be able to become Ben. 

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  1. LorenzoMay 23, 2021 at 3:41 PM

    I definitely agree with your point of view. I also think that the fact that Benji gets hit in the eye with a bb gun pellet is a huge sign that he's not supposed to be just following/comparing himself to Reggie, but that he needs to find his own identity.

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  2. EllaMay 23, 2021 at 5:30 PM

    Yes I think their dynamic is so interesting. When Benji first discusses their split, he describes it as a good thing, almost freeing in a sense. Despite Benji's initial excitement, like you say, he seems to trail behind Reggie in some ways. One specific example I find striking is on their first day out when Reggie has somehow become attuned to the social cue that bikes are no longer in while Benji does not. This social blunder on Benji's part leads him to be ostracized from the group for that afternoon. For some reason, Reggie is much quicker to explore and find himself which aids in his social interactions with the rest of the group.

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  3. SerenityMay 23, 2021 at 7:15 PM

    I think this is a really interesting post. Navigating any sibling dynamic is so complicated. I feel like there's always a source of tension between siblings because it feels like one overshadows the other one. I think Benji going to another school was a good step in him becoming more of himself, however I think that it being a white private school is kind of a step back for him. It's sad to read about him losing a friend essentially.

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  4. JonathanMay 23, 2021 at 7:56 PM

    I agree, I also thought their relationship was really unique. It's really interesting to see how Benji has to like earn his authority over Reggie, even though he's older. It's also pretty obvious that doing what Reggie does isn't natural for Benji, seeing as he's usually the odd one out when it comes to bb guns and etc., and the clumsiness of his struggle to be like Reggie is kind of highlighted by a moment like when he gets hit in the eye with a bb.

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  5. RowanMay 24, 2021 at 11:07 AM

    It seems like Reggie's speed and desire to grow up even further emphasizes what Ben is already struggling with in school and with his other peers, like how he talks about always missing the memo. The idea that even his younger brother, who used to be totally on the same page as him, is ahead of him really exaggerates how behind he feels.

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  6. Allie KimMay 24, 2021 at 9:25 PM

    I like everything you mentioned in this post and definitely agree with your point of view. It's interesting to me how Benji basically gets peer pressured by Reggie to do things, despite the fact that Reggie never really outwardly pressures Benji. Reggie is basically minding his own business throughout most of the book, however Benji overcompensates to avoid feeling as though he's being outpaced by his younger sibling. Especially because of "Benji 'n' Reggie," I'm sure that Benji felt the pressure of the unspoken rule that he and Reggie must change in the same ways at the same time. This definitely seems to stress him out, with Melanie even pointing out that Benji used to be happier and more carefree.

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